Bonding is easy. Spontaneity is the key.
It’s easy to slip into monotony, lose yourself and lose your partner.
Stop being calculative and predictable. Do it on impulse. When those moments show up (and they do on a daily basis), jump on them and seize them. Take the walk, even if I you had other things planned. Dice the carrot while she washes the vegetables. Jump in the bathtub with them unexpectedly and disrupt their routine.
The little basic daily activities strengthen your bond more than anything else. It’s in those lighthearted conversations you have in the kitchen as you prepare breakfast or dinner. It’s the simple gist you make when you drive for a visit. It’s the sublime gestures at TV time.
You don’t need it planned; you don’t have to make it formal, nothing else drives passion and romance the way spontaneity does.
Be spontaneous. Stay creative. Chase boredom out of your relationship.
