MARITAL HEALTH CHECK

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1. I am enjoying my marriage *

2. I am free to express my mind the way I'd like to and my spouse listens to me. *

3. I had a wonderful childhood that afforded me the freedom to air my opinions. *

4. I had wonderful teenage years and was very confident of myself. *

5. My single life was very exciting with no baggage of unresolved emotions and hurts. *

6. My spouse sees the home as our home and has no problems engaging in household chores. *

7. There is alignment between my words, thoughts and actions. *

8. I was brought up in a happy and settled family *

9. My life is free of any struggles with no addictions or secrets that I'm afraid to share. *

10. My spouse and I were best of friends and had pleasant memories of our single years before marriage. *

11. My spouse and I are still close friends and are able to bare our minds to each other. *

12. I am able to easily forgive my spouse and move on in the spirit of unity *

13. Our home has a clear vision and values that are both known to us and everyone in the home. *

14. We read virtually the same type of books and listen to the same kind of speakers and mentors. *

15. Our sex life is fantastic and we are able to explore ourselves the way both of us desire. *

16. We both know our love languages and personality types and accept each other the way we are. *

17. We are able to resolve our differences without shouting on each other or engage in any form of emotional or physical abuse. *

18. My spouse is considerate when I am not able to meet up to their expectations. *

19. I am free to be me around my spouse, free to bare my mind without any fear of assault or misconception. *

20. My spouse is Number 1 on my agenda, before my kids, religious affiliations or work. *

21. We have a marital coach we both respect and listen to at all times. *

22. We have a family constitution we both respect that guides our conduct *

23. We respect our in-laws but ensure they don't influence our marriage in any way outside the areas we have given them permission to interfere. *

24. I am closer to my spouse and comfortable in their company than my siblings. *

25. My spouse is very okay with the friends I hang out with and has no issues with any of them. *

1. A man is superior to a woman and every woman must submit to a man. *

Agree
Disagree

2. I believe a husband is superior to his wife. *

Agree
Disagree

3. I believe it is the duty of a woman to cook for the family. *

Agree
Disagree

4. I believe a real man must be the breadwinner and must provide for his family. *

Agree
Disagree

5. The man should have the final say in every matter that concerns the family. *

Agree
Disagree

6. I believe a man and a woman are the same and none is superior & both man and woman must submit. *

Agree
Disagree

7. I believe a husband and his wife are teammates where the husband takes the lead by serving his family. *

Agree
Disagree

8. I believe who cooks is a means to an end and should be able to cook for the family or we delegate it. *

Agree
Disagree

9. I believe everyone should work & whatever we bring in should collectively serve the interest of the family. *

Agree
Disagree

10. The man needs to consult his wife about her dreams and align with his to create a strategic direction for the family. *

Agree
Disagree

11. I believe the final say in every matter should be based on our expertise in those areas of concern *

Agree
Disagree

12. Our family members should be able to come in anytime they like. *

Agree
Disagree

13. A man doesn’t have to disclose what he earns to his wife. *

Agree
Disagree

14. A wife who questions what her husband does is disrespectful.. *

Agree
Disagree

15. It is not proper for a wife to earn more than her husband because she may become proud. *

Agree
Disagree

16. A good man must be able to control his wife and cut down her excesses so that she doesn’t disrespect him. *

Agree
Disagree

17. Family members need to pre-inform us before they show up to enable us plan. *

Agree
Disagree

18. Whatever couples earn must be open to everyone in the family & no one owns anything privately *

Agree
Disagree

19. A good wife should hold her husband accountable and must be able to question his actions and decisions. *

Agree
Disagree

20. There is nothing wrong in a wife earning more than her husband because what they both bring in belongs to the family *

Agree
Disagree

1. I feel unloved when I am talked down and could easily withdraw because words nurture me. *

2. I love it when good words are used on me as it pumps up my confidence *

3. I am very good with words that I lavishly use it to make those I love feel good *

4. I love it when the person I love ‘spoils’ me with gifts *

5. I love to ‘spoil’ anyone I like with gifts as well because it’s my way of telling them I always think about them *

6. I cherish and appreciate whatever people give to me once it is consistent. *

7. I love it when I am cuddled by the person I love because I feel loved when I’m touched. *

8. I could sometimes feel vulnerable & unhappy when I don’t get the touch I want from my spouse *

9. I love to hold people close when they need me because it is my way of expressing affection *

10. I love it when my spouse helps me with whatever I am doing and I could feel stressed when he/she constantly declines. *

11. I love to be there for others and can work my socks off just to be sure they are okay and things go well *

12. I have strong love and affection for people who can serve me faithfully without complaints *

13. I always want to be with my spouse because I miss him/her when we are not together. *

14. My best moments are the times spent together with my spouse and I long for inseparable friendship *

15. I wish I could go everywhere with my spouse and I miss him/her so badly when he/she must go on trips we can’t go together. *

1. Many people think I am hard because I am blunt, decisive and my work rate is quite high. *

2. I work so well under pressure and love to take risks and projects others think can’t be done. *

3. I love to take the lead wherever I find myself and could easily become angry when goals are not met especially when people start to make excuses as against taking responsibility. *

4. I love people and always want to make them happy. I forgive so easily even though I often don’t get the same treatment from others. *

5. People notice me easily and love me because I tend to be the live wire of everywhere I find myself and can motivate people to get things done. *

6. I dislike rules and regulations that promotes dogma & tradition because I know there are other ways to get the job done as against the expected norm. *

7. I naturally hate to offend people so I may be slow to confront issues because I am waiting for the right time and the right way to do it *

8. People see me as a slow starter and they think I don’t like change but I am steady, dependable, controlled, love to do things at my pace and one of the best listeners you can find. *

9. I love to work from the background without making noise about my accomplishment. I love to relate with people in a warm manner and could withdraw to my shell when you become aggressive. I would rather allow peace reign than be confrontational *

10. I am perfectionism personified and can’t stand disorganized people *

11. I love to work based on rules and regulations and believe people should be very serious about what they must do instead of wasting time playing around. *

12. I could be critical because I want the best result; private because I really don’t see the need to talk about myself but high on details and must be convinced beyond every reasonable doubt. *

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