LOVE LANGUAGE ASSESSMENT

Name *

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Last

Email Address *

Gender *

Male
Female

1. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner sends me a loving note/text for no particular reason
my partner and I hold hands/hug.

2. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner and I get to spend time together alone with no distractions or interruptions
my partner does something practical to help me out..

3. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner shows they love me by giving me a gift, no matter how little
my partner and i hang out together - just the two of us

4. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner pleasantly surprises me by doing something for me they know I am supposed to do
my partner and I randomly touch each other or lock eyes together

5. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner puts their arm around me when we're at a function or an event
my partner surprises me with a gift.

6. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I'm around my partner, even if we're not really doing anything
I hold hands with my partner.

7. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner buys or gets me a gift.
my partner tells me "I love you"

8. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I sit close to my partner or stand beside them
I am complimented by my loved one for no apparent reason

9. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I get the chance to just "hang out" with my partner.
I unexpectedly get small gifts from my partner.

10. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I hear my partner tell me, "I'm proud of you."
my partner helps me with a task and takes the burden off me

11. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I get to do things with my partner.
I hear encouraging words from my partner.

12. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner does things for me instead of just talking about doing nice things.
I feel connected to my partner through a hug

13. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I hear commendations from my partner.
my partner gives me something that shows they were really thinking about me.

14. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I'm able to just be around my partner.
I get a back rub or massage from my partner.

15. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner reacts positively to something I've accomplished
my partner does something for me that I know they don't particularly enjoy.

16. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner and I kiss frequently,
my partner shows interest in the things I care about.

17. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner works on special projects with me that I have to complete.
my partner gives me an exciting gift.

18. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I'm complimented by my partner on my appearance
my partner takes the time to listen to me and really understand my feelings.

19. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner and I share non-sexual touch in public.
my partner offers to run errands for me.

20. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner does a bit more than their normal share of the responsibilities we share (around the house, work-related, etc).
I get a gift that I know my partner put thought into choosing

21. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner doesn't check their phone while we're talking
my partner goes out of their way to do something that relieves pressure on me.

22. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

I can look forward to a holiday because of a gift I anticipate receiving
I hear the words, "I appreciate you" from my partner.

23. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner brings me a little gift after they've been traveling without me.
my partner takes care of something I'm responsible to do but I feel too stressed to do at the time.

24. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner doesn't interrupt me while I'm talking.
gift giving is an important part of our relationship.

25. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner helps me out when they know I'm already tired.
I get to go somewhere while spending time with my partner.

26. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner and I are physically intimate.
my partner gives me a little gift that they picked up in the course of their normal day

27. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner says something encouraging to me.
I get to spend time in a shared activity or hobby with my partner

28. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner surprises me with a small token of their appreciation
my partner and I touch a lot during the normal course of the day.

29. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner helps me out- especially if I know they're already busy.
I hear my partner specifically tell me, "I appreciate you."

30. I feel more loved, cared for and elated when *

my partner and I embrace after we've been apart for a while.
I hear my partner say how much I mean to them

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