qs – Juwon Odutayo

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1 Rushed and inadequate premarital counselling

2 Delay or Inability in having children

3 Lack of clear understanding of marriage obligations

4 Early marriage.

5 Husband and wife staying separate

6 Husband’s inability to cater for his wife

7 Sexual denial by any of the partners

8 Lack of communication skills

9 Personality differences

10 Money or Financial issues

11 Lack of marriage mentorship

12 Absence of regular post marital counseling

13 Ineffective men/women’s fellowship

14 Church’s inability to provide qualified counselors.

15 Extra-marital affairs

1 Effective and quality Pre-marital counselling

2 Build a culture of openness and accountability

3 Regular post marital counseling

4 Effective communication between husband and wife

5 Quality time together (Regular date nights, walks, strolls, etc)

6 Institutionalize marriage mentorship

7 Institute a vibrant married men’s and women's fellowship

8 Periodic training on conflict resolution

9 Have an emergency response team

10 Managing spouse’s expectations

11 Use only trained and professional marriage counselors

12 Have entrepreneurship and empowerment programs

13 Reduce church activities and encourage family time

14 Having a prayer room in the house called ‘War Room’

15 Providing marriage books for couples to read

1 Proper management of conflict and conflict resolution

2 Creating a counseling unit in church

3 Using trained and qualified counselors to handle marital issues

4 Making post marital counseling compulsory for every married couple.

5 Making post marital counseling quarterly or biannual

6 Regular marriage seminars

7 Have an emergency response team

8 Encourage and institutionalize marriage mentorship

9 Teach the values of spending quality time together (Regular date nights, walks, strolls, etc)

10 Regular sermons on marriage

11 Building a culture of openness and accountability

12. Vibrant men's fellowship and women's fellowship

13 Periodic training on conflict resolution

14 Having a prayer room in the house called 'War Room'

15 Providing marriage books for couples to read.

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